Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Graphics Card Black Screen?

It seems that your card fried.. I don't think that much can be done. You have to get it to repair shop and they will tell you if they can repair it but I think it would be just cheaper and faster to get new graphic card.

Want to buy this car and need help?

I really, really like cars and theres this old 1960's or 1970's Impala in this persons drivway somewhat near my house and it's not for sale or anything but i LOVE it, i really like the look of it even though its rusty and i've NEVER seen it moved, do u think if the people held onto that car so long its a testoment to how much they loved it or does it show that they could never get rid of it? I have a feeling its a older couple that owns it and i would LOVE to buy that car someday. Do u think i could make a offer to them? Whats a really good offer price that they'd have a hard time refusing yet im not totlaly ripping myself off here? How would i go about asking to buy it? I'm 16 and getting my permit soon, i will drive my mom's old maxima that i lvoe also, (i get attched to cars) and thats why i want to offer them a good price because i know people get attached to their cars... I would take excellent care of it, plz help. Thank you and no hurtful comments plz

How do you believe a child should be disciplined?

I got slapped and hit a lot as a child, and I think I turned out pretty well. The only negative that I can observe is that I was a very subdued child...I was very shy and afraid of a lot of things, but I've grown out of that. My little sister, on the other hand, NEVER got hit as a child. I love her to death, but she might be the brattiest teenager I've ever seen. This is probably a very narrow example, but it's why I believe kids should be disciplined the old-fashioned way!

Do they insert a urinary catheter with all pain relief during labor?

I'm just about to enter my third trimester so I've been doing a lot of research regarding the types of pain relief available for me. I've noticed that everything I come upon regarding an epidural also comes with a urinary catheter and I'm super not comfortable with that. I guess what I'm wondering is if a catheter is necessary no matter what during the labor process, or if it's only accompanied by certain types of pain relief. Thanks so much.

Using Candit v3 during pregnancy?

Hi, I am now 22 weeks pregnant for my 3rd baby, i have been having a yellowish thick discharge for from the beginning of my pregnancy, feel it is getting increase and with bad smell & itching too. I never had with my previous pregnancies. When I told my Gyno when i was in 8 months preg, he asked me to use Candit v3, but when i read the catalog it says i should not use it during first trimester, but now i am in 2nd trimester, so can I use it now? Will there be any side effects?or is there any permanent solution for this?please help me,

What is the model of Tito Jackson's guitar (of the J5's)?

I think it might be a gibson es 335 but probably not because of the pearl on the fretboard...can you please tell me the model, year and the name of the long metal part that attaches to the bridge? I have a picture of his guitar on this link: https://picasaweb.google.com/golferthatwins/Pictures?authkey=Gv1sRgCK3_7ruYx77I4gE#5624094079648088562

Someone write me a thesis statement for the final speech by othello please?

In Othello's final monologue, he expresses his wish to have his story recorded. "Speak of me as I am," he says, imparting to his listeners the importance of avoiding exaggeration or oversight. He seems to want this in order to warn others about the powerful and manipulative force of jealousy; even a man as confident, trusting, and peaceful as himself could be reigned in by the corrupt emotion.

Should the police use tickling to subdue suspects?

Yes! It's a nonviolent yet powerful form of painless torture. I like the promotion of peaceful policework instead of hearing about discriminating or inhumane violence done by police.

I'm 11 weeks - chances of miscarrying ?

Once you see the heartbeat, the likelihood of a miscarriage drops dramatically. It's about 2% and remains so through the pregnancy I believe.

Can the Droid Incredible 2 get Swype downloaded?

I have always had a phone with the hard keyboard..but I am willing to try something different. I've decided to get the Droid Incredible 2..but I am not used to having a touch keyboard at all. Is there any way possible that this phone can get Swype added to it? Also..I dont know if anyone will know this..but does this phone have an arm band that you can attach it to? I am a runner and running with a phone like this is almost impossible because it is so big. Thank you!

Decreased fetal movement in 20 weeks?

i am 20 weeks pregnant, i have been feeling my baby move inside me quiet regularly and frequently since two weeks now. for the last 3-4 days the movement has decreased and there hasn't been a movement (i have not felt it) since yesterday morning (almost 24 hrs). i dont knw if its normal or is it a cause to worry? i have also not been feeling very hungry lately unlike the beginning of my second trimester when i used to feel hungry all the time, now i just feel like having a lot of water and other liquids. this may be because of the extremely hot weather i am in, does it have to do something with the baby kicking? i am a little worried but i dont want to be freaked out just yet. has this happened to anyone else? is this a normal thing to happen? or should i see my doctor asap?

How can you disolve a homeowners association?

There are only 3 units but owners can't get along and move forward on anything. We'd like to disolve the association and maybe just copay the hazard insurance since our townhomes are all attached. What's the simplest way to proceed? We need to keep costs as low as possible.

Can I take over my mother's mortgage?

My mother wants to sell her house to me. She can't keep up the day to day up keep of a house anymore and would like to instead live in the in-law apartment that is attached to the home. Can she simply write her mortgage over to me? Will me husband and I then be able to own the home and continue her mortgage as our own? How does this work? What are my options? Do we have to apply for a new mortgage ourselves? Thank you!

I have heavy bleeding during first trimester? what could it be?

im so worried. yesterday i went to the er and the doctor that seen me said i was wasting his time. i went to use the restroom yesterday night and found some blood. they took an ultrasound and blood test. its 20,000 with blood test. the sack and everything was still on the ultrasound. im about 5 to 6 weeks and im freaking out bad. im bleeding worse now and have a few tiny clots. idk what it is im so scared. can someone help me plz email me (jamesbabygirl67yahoo.com) thanks

Does society fear women's wrath or men's wrath more?

Society definitely fears women's wrath more. That's why it's so politically incorrect to be a man and why women have more rights than men and fewer responsibilities and why just about everything is catered to women.

What symptoms did you have during the first trimester?

Extreme, nipple and breast tenderness, I noticed this even before my period was late. Tiredness, food aversions, morning sickness, bloating...

How can I become more human?

Everything has failed to subdue me. Now everything seems dull: another sunrise, the lives of heroes, falling in love, war, the discoveries people make about each other. The only thing that doesn't bore me, obviously enough, is how much money my colleague makes, and yet in its obviousness it does. There isn't a clear, identifiable emotion within me, except for greed and, possibly, total disgust. I have all the characteristics of a human being — flesh, blood, skin, hair — but my depersonalization is so intense, has gone so deep, that the normal ability to feel compassion has been eradicated, the victim of a slow, purposeful erasure. I am simply imitating reality, a rough resemblance of a human being, with only a dim corner of my mind functioning. Something horrible is happening and yet I cannot figure out why; I cannot put my finger on it.

Refrigerated foods overnight?

Is it true that during pregnancy you shouldn't eat refrigerated leftovers? Or is that only true in your first trimester?

Were mormons responsible for massacure at mountain meadows?

this is an add on for two prior questions on this subject. gordon hinkley, prophet of mormon church, stated it was a regretable accident that should never have happened. in his speech he left no doubt mormons were responsible. he did not indict [ b. young ] , but latter evidence indicated [ young ]set into motion events that led to the killings. bones doug up at site indicated children as young as 3 were shot.a lot of politicle pressure was brought all around by the church to cover up the incident. even several years ago prominent politicians were still trying to subdue it. regardles the stain against gods chosen church remains g. hinkley did not want a movie made of it, but one was made anyway. a number of books have been written on the subject, well researched, stating mormons were responsible for massacure. subject closed. your response??

What should I do now?

there is nothing you can do.. contact flickr or facebook or whatever.. and if you have privacy its surely one of ur friends making fun of you.. if you dont have privacy then set them as no1 could see your pix except your friends but now you can do nothing except thinking whom of your friends made it

Strict Parents! Help Please!?

So today I got my repost card back. I had four A's and a B+ (in math). Unfortunately for me this trimester I was sick A LOT so i missed about 11 assignments in math. My dad is freaking out, and not letting me use the computer besides for school purposes( he doesnt know im on right now) and i cant hang out with my friends this summer. School Starts in more than 2 months and I cannot deal with being alone all summer. What should i do?

Confusion about 2nd trimester?

14 weeks is the beginning week of the second trimester. 28 weeks will be the beginning of the third trimester. Enjoy the 2nd because its a lot easier and you will feel better for a while.

Last trimester & super sore feet? and gluclose testing?

Just stay off them or sock them. Also it should be your next appt. my ob had me take mine at 26 weeks and the orange drink leaves a nasty after taste and its better when its been in the fridge. Also take it an hour before your appt. time also if you still want to know when you have to do it for sure call there office they will tell you everything.

This is not happening to me, but the question popped into my head and I am curious!?

I am just wondering if retaining water during the first two months of pregnancy is a normal condition?? I know you are not suppose to gain a lot of weight if any in the first trimester, but what about water weight? Would it be anything like the few pounds you can retain just before and during you period week??

If someone is really hesitant and subdued...?

Is there any sport or activity that will bring them out of themselves and make them more confident and have less fear?

Questions about Prenatal Blood tests?

Ok so I am currently 11 weeks pregnant with baby number 2. My first child is 9 1/2, so it has been a while since I have done all of this prenatal stuff, and times have changed since 10 years ago. I had my first prenatal blood test, and pap smear a few weeks ago. Everything was good for the most part. My thyroid level was low, which I was told could be due to hormone changes due to pregnancy in the first trimester, and it should level back out in the second trimester. Does anyone have any experience with this matter? Also I had a full std panel and hpv, excluding hiv checked. I came back with a minor yeast infection which caused my pap to be abnormal. I have never had a yeast infection before, but was also told it could be due to the hormone changes, and is common during pregnancy? Again thoughts from anyone with this experience? Also back to the stds, like I said I was checked for it all but hiv. The only reason I wasnt tested for that was because I have had the test done before, during my last pregnancy. I have been with my husband for over 3 years, and felt that if I had something like that it would have shown up somewhere in my blood work. I have also never had an STD, so it would be unlikely to have hiv right? But then I got to thinking I should just have it done for peace of mind, because its bothering me LOL! So I think I will have it done on my next blood work. Thoughts on that as well? I would appreciate answers from ladies who have been there and know what they are talking about. Thank you.

Crazy question about the laws regarding dogs for protection?

If you have an attack dog you should have it trained to stand down on command - just like a gun should have a safety catch. If you can't control your dog and call it off then it is dangerous. "Ripping apart anyone who comes in uninvited" often includes harmless people like kids looking for stray baseballs and even extended family members. It's probably down to local ordinances as to whether you'll get a fine or not.

Normal bleeding or probable miscarriage?

I am now 5 weeks pregnant. For the past week, I have had a pretty normal pregnancy, except for the lgiht bleeding that occured last week. I went to the ER on Thursday and since I was only 4 weeks and 3 days, the ultrasound didn't show anything relating to the baby. My HCG level was 765. The next day, I had another quantative hcg test done, and my levels were over the 1500's. I was happy and so was the doctor, but he stressed that I wasn't out of the wood quite yet. I went in today (Monday) and had one more test done. My levels were well into the mid 4000's, and my doctor was pleased, and then I had a big problem happen. I started bleeding. It was not a bright red, but more of a red with a brownish tinge to it. It only happened for maybe 20 minutes or so, and it wasn't like I was bleeding heavily, just whenever I wiped, that blood stuff was there. So then I got scared and called the doctor back. She wants another HCG blood test done on Wednesday, and then she wants me to go in for an ultrasound next week when I am 6 weeks, to make sure there is a heart beat and that everything looks normal, if this turns out not to be a miscarriage. I wasn't having any cramping at all, so the doctor told me that was a good sign. So any ladies out there have this occur to you in the very beginning of your pregnancy, and had a normal pregnancy after the first trimester! Please, words of wisdom!! Thanks ladies!

If I want to recover stolen items and money, should I go through civil or criminal means?

I already have a civil judgement, but we have had no success recovering because everything was moved out of their name into their spouses. Would the police through criminal charges have any more power to attach to the spouses assets and/or make them pay?

Why do we still call the removal of natives and forests of Europe by the ruling class "religious crusades"?

Way to stay on the "cutting edge" of political problems there, I am sure congress will dump the debt ceiling debate to take this one up post haste.

How to cure hayfever in pregnancy without medicines?

Get a kit to do a sinus rinse (such as a Neti pot). It is cheap, and all natural. Follow the instructions to rinse your nose out. You can do it up to every two hours. Even if you don't feel stuffy, it will clear out any allergens before it starts problems. The side of my own Neti Pot actually says that pregnancy often causes worse sinus problems and rinsing is the best thing you can do for it.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Single red bump on the pubic region of my vagina?

Yesterday I shaved my entire pubic region and today while I was using the restroom I noticed a single red bump with a white head on it, like a pimple. It wasn't on my vagina it was where the hair grows right above it. So I popped it, and there really wasn't anything that came out just the white head came off. There's no itching and I am pretty sure I don't have any diseases because I am pregnant and was tested during my first trimester. but is this normal? What could it be?

Landlord working on my house: your opinion?

My husband and I moved into a 60-year-old house about three months ago. The house was unpainted at the time. The house is owned by a couple who own several other homes in our area. They asked if the house being unpainted was a problem for us, and I told them, "Not as long as it is painted soon, and the work on it doesn't drag on and on. If it's finished fast, it will be okay." I am pregnant, and when I got into the third trimester, I contacted the landlady to let her know they needed to begin work on the house. Her husband had told me it would take 8 weeks to paint it, and I only had 8 weeks left until my baby could come. They started about two weeks after this. She told me it should take 2-3 weeks, that her husband was wrong, and it would not take 8. Well, our landlord is a do-it-yourself type of guy, a terrible time manager as well, and he has some OCD tendencies. After a week and a half of noisy sanding and scraping, he seems to have fired the painting crew and is now sanding the ENTIRE HOUSE by himself, because no one can get it as perfect as he can. It's been almost three weeks, and he's not even finished sanding/scraping ONE wall of our home. I'm about three weeks from being full term, and the non-stop hammering noise is driving me insane. Our landlord is so slow, we feel that this project could take months. We have made it clear to them from the beginning that ANY work being done on our home when the baby is here is completely unacceptable. They agreed to this, but now it is looking like he may not finish in time. I'm very upset about this. For days, the landlord has been at our house alone, tinkering with the sanding and not getting anything done. I have no idea when the paint team will be back, or if they ever will be. It's just been a major source of stress-- largely because he is SO slow and cannot be trusted to get anything done. My husband and I are planning to tell him this afternoon that we are concerned, and try to speed him along- but the fact is, this is HIS house. He owns it, not us. If he wants to be a perfectionist, we can't really stop him. What is your take on this. Any advice? If I could tell you how loud this work is, you would understand why it cannot go on with a new infant in our small house. :(

Which team would you give spirit of cricket award for ICC CWC 2011 ?

I think the race is b/w India and Nz. Pak dropped so many catches. australia played subdued cricket. Sl captain cheated at the final toss, sa made physical contact after loosing to nz. england didn't played cricket at all, they were relaxing... whats your choice ?

What if Japan and Germany Violates Non-military act?

They BOTH have a substantial military force & have had one for years. Japans' is considered a self-defense force but nevertheless it is a military force.

In Texas, if someone was to try to fight you in your own house, is it legal to pull out a gun to stop the?

Is it legal to pull out a gun to stop the situation while you call the police? The only other option I can think of is to fight back (subdue the aggressor) which will always end in domestic violence.

Why does my girlfriend's stomach hurt?

My girlfriend is pregnant, and she is in the first trimester of her pregnancy. She is experiencing pain in waves, from a sort of moderate burn to a sharp searing pain at times. What is causing this, and is there anything she could do to relieve the pain? Serious answers only, please!

Progesterone pill and pregnancy?

Hi. My doc has prescribed a progesterone pill for me to start taking one day after I ovulate. I have low levels of progesterone and, although my cycles are very regular (and I have no problem ovulating) I begin spotting about 7 days before my period begins. I am blessed to have a two year old and he was conceived with no problems, at all. My question: What is your experience with this pill? What is successful for you and did it have any side effects? Did you continue to take the pills through your first trimester and have a healthy, full term pregnancy? Any advice regarding these questions would really mean a lot. Thank you!

How to make an LED light to be attached to my bicycle which lights with the spinning of wheels?

I think you can buy little clamp-on dynamos that attach to the frame and are driven by the tire. Don't forget that LEDs need a current limiting resistor of around 300 ohms in series unless you like puffs of smoke.

HELP! My guinea pig has a lump?

If you got her at a pet store, take her back and have them look at it. They will do this for free. I would say maybe change her food and cage fillers. You can call vets around your town and they will give you estimates for checkups. Try finding a vet that will do a check up for free, or a pet store that will, so you can get that checked out just in case. Best of luck!

What does the pain feel like when giving birth?

ok so im in my 3rd trimester and ive started to think about the birth, its my first, and i was talking to my mum about it and she said it feel like a car parks on your pelvis, wich has freaked me out a bit, is it really this bad? i wanted a natural birth because i just feel its better for the baby and i really dont like needles. my mum said i'll change my mind. i just wanted to know how painfull it is? because i want to be ready lol.

My cat was in a fight this evening and is now really subdued?

He was in a fight but came back with blood in his fur but not actual cuts, now he is not himself, off his food, won't even take interest in his fab cat treat, so very subdued and dopey and does seem to want to move or do anything, should I be worried or is he just sulking?

What is the name of the movie that has a woman tied to a table by knights and a huge blade will chop her in1/2?

mediveal looking knights tie a woman to a table that has a huge blade mech. attached to it. dhe has red stockings on i think

Should I continue seeing this guy?

Oh god. He sounds like a peice of poop that you scrape up in the dog park. Don't even be his friend!!

Color changes after tattoo healing process?

I just got a tattoo and the colors are very vivid (a little too bright than I had in mind actually). I'm wondering if after the healing process they will be a bit more subdued? The colors are sort of a teal and greenish/turquoise.

Over the last few nights, my dreams which are frequent,have progressed to dangerous episodes. ??<>.<M?

There is something badly unsettled in your life that is giving you these vivid dreams. You are trying to resolve something in your dreams that you cannot resolve in your waking life

Do You know about programs works on notepad? Write program & get 10 points.?

Write program on notepad and run it. Its really funny and cool. If you know about any program can make on notepad, please share it with us. We will kind to you! How to create it? We will apply for good purpose! Oh attach your name & id too (if you have no problem). Thank you for your help!

Is it ok for vagina lips to be aching during pregnancy 3rd trimester?

Yes its normal i had it with my first it started at around 32 weeks cuz he was very big and low but wasnt on bed rest or anything just a big baby.. With my 2nd now it started at 24 weeks becuz she dropped on me and had to get two steriod shots and put on bed rest. They have gotten worse recent cuz she is now 2 inches from comin out of me and i have contractions everyday since 24 weeks.. I take pills to stop them to try and make it to 34+ weeks. Its just ur body know its gettin closer to the big day.. Good luck and congrats on ur baby..

"Benevolence subdues its opposite just as water subdues fire." Evaluate this claim.?

Benevolence aims at yielding the utmost good onto others and this claim is sometimes not acceptable to others. You can offer to be good to someone but if the recipient does not welcome the notion, malevolence then takes the stage. But only a minority amount of people would not embrace benevolence as it does not portray ill will to most people. So in most instances, Benevolence malevolence but not always.

Moms: Wellbutrin cause any kind of birth defect in your child?

My husband & I want to have another baby and I've spoken with my doctor about the medications I'm currently taking. According to the warning label on the Wellbutrin it's okay for Trimesters 1 & 2 but not for Trimester 3... I'm trying to decide whether I want to risk taking it, my Dr. said ultimately it's up to me but that it's benefits outweigh the risks since stress is not good for the baby but I know I'm going to stress about putting chemicals into my body that could harm the baby. I've already given up caffeine & artificial sweeteners. I wasn't on any medications during my first pregnancy & while I was experiencing my depression & anxiety, my son seems to be fine. I'm not asking for medical advice, more for experiences from other mom's. I don't smoke or drink and only take a few medications at the moment. What I'd like to know is if anyone out there took Wellbutrin while pregnant? (Preferably just that so any issues couldn't have come from somewhere else) If so, did your baby have any birth defects or other problems? (I'm mostly worried due to the fact that it was presumed safe to take Paxil while pregnant but now there's a class action lawsuit because of many babies being born with birth defects :( ) Please only leave serious answers, i.e. don't answer just to get the points. Thanks!

Who first sacrificed life for Islam. Male and female?

During of Islam, opponents move forward to kill so many new Muslims.Who was the man and woman to sacrifice their lives and not to subdue.

The pipes in our apartment are vibrating/humming?

Ours does that to.. And my mom wont call the land lord!!!! Omg drives me nuts but i would like to know the answer

Tavelling in second trimester?

My advice as a mother and a pregnant woman currently as well is, if the dr said not to do it, DO NOT DO IT. There are reasons they tell you not to do it (same as there are stupid laws and rules but only bc someone did them first) and the risk of losing the baby are not worth the trip. He is your DR for a reason...especially since he did an extra 8 or so years after a bachelors degree in college, I'd say he is qualified to tell you not to go and should be enough for you not to go. I know you read stuff online but hello, you can find anything to support or reject whatever you want to online. Trust the doc

What are my chances of getting into a University?

I really want to get into Hamline University, it is honestly my dream school. My grades have been very inconsistent, therefore leaving me with a rough 2.5 GPA, hoping I can get it up a little bit more with my first trimester in my senior year before I send in my application. I can get very good teacher reccomendations, I've done extracurricular activities such as Peer Mediation since 2004, I've lettered in Amnesty International and I've done Orchestra since I was in 6th grade and recently made it into honors. I've taken a number of honors and an AP class. I'm very high in math, and I always have good scores. I like to think that I've definately proved myself but the lack of consistency in my grades is what worries me. I just took the ACT and should be getting my score in a few days but i'm guessing I will get around a 23 or 25. I'm also a very good writer hoping that my essay will help, but what do you think my chances are? Apologies for the long rant of myself.

What does sup tho mean?

I dont get it, one of my friends always writes "sup tho", and to me i dont know why "tho" has to be attached to sup, or also i saw "cupcake tho", what does that mean?

Severe UTI in second trimester?

I'm curious if this is common during pregnancy? I just had my first baby 13 months ago and never had a UTI with her. What freaks me out the most is how sudden it came upon me. There were no warning signs at all. One part of the day I was fine and then suddenly I'm peeing every minute and it feels like I'm peeing glass. Very painful. I started bleeding and that freaked me out so I went in to see the dr and she wasn't available so I had to see the nurse practitioner. I had level 3 blood in my urine. She listened to the baby's heartbeat and checked me vaginally. Everything seemed fine. She told me to take AZO. Are you kidding me?!? I was in so much pain and so uncomfortable and she isn't going to prescribe me an antibiotic to clear this up????? So now I'm worried because I feel like she didn't examine me well enough since she obviously didn't have a brain. Its been 4 days now and I'm still feeling funky. Not sure what to do. I've taken the AZO, cranberry juice and plenty of water. I've also been taking an antibiotic they gave me for a bladder infection during my first trimester that I never took. Called the nurse and she said it was ok to take it. Is this common or should I try to speak to my doctor about this?

Attaching a Gamertag to a REFERENCE number?

is it possible for someone to attach a gamertag to a reference number and call zune to verify the info?

What is the name and where do I get the clear tape that is attached to clothes to keep up, ie strapless dress?

Its a rubbery clear tape that is sewn on the edge of garments to keep them in place. Like strapless dresses and sometimes lingerie. I cant find it anywhere except a cheap nasty version at Spotlight. The tape I want has good grip.

Am I being irrational to my bf or is this just part of being pregnant?

So my BF made me sooo mad by saying that he would rather be pregnant and go through labor and get to stay home like me (I'm on summer vacation now since I'm a substitute teacher, and he wants me to find a summer job but we don't need the money we have a few thousand saved up and his income is more than enough to pay bills). And I just like blew up over it. I screamed and cried and said I can't believe he thinks I'm just sitting at home twiddling my thumbs all day because it sure as hell isn't easy to be pregnant especially the first trimester I feel like crap every day. And then I broke up with him. So now he's in the bedroom and I'm in the living room and I don't feel sorry for screaming and crying and he doesn't feel sorry for saying that he'd rather be pregnant and go through labor instead of have to go to work because it's just like I sit on my *** all day or something like that according to him. I lost my job last November and will be starting as a substitute teacher in 2 months but I don't see the point of me getting a stupid minimum wage job for 2 months when we don't need the money. And then he would rather go through labor instead of work I got so upset because it's the worse pain ever. Please let me know am i being irrational??? OK thanks

I think my cat may be hurt please help!?

last night i took my cat out on her harness and leash just to get a little fresh air and my sister moved a patio chair and she freaked out and started jumping and going crazy. she literally looked like a fish out of water. she was flipping and landing on the cement. i took her inside n felt her all over to check for signs of sensitivity but she didnt react. but today she has been very mild and subdued (shes usually playful and silly) and i dont know if shes hurt or bruised or what please help. btw she had no cuts either. no swelling either i dont think

Cat Question-Is my cat ok?

She is fine. Tired and thirsty probably. A cats nose has no affect on their health. Warm or cold, dry or wet. Its an old wives tale.

Monday, July 18, 2011

Is it wrong for me to tell my stepson that God hates him?

His mother (my new wife) refused to do a good job of disciplining him and he was out of control. I used to just tell him that once in a while but he still acted out. Now that I am sure to tell him multiple times a day that God hates him he is much more subdued and just stays in his room. He is 13. Is this wrong?

What is the probability in a hat trick 5 people wont get back their own hats?

In hockey when somebody gets 3 goals in one game its customary to throw hats on the ice. I need to find out if there are only 5 spectators at the ring and they throw their hats on the ice, what is the probability the ref will give back the hats and nobody will get their hat? I an having trouble because i have an attached article called Avoiding Your Spouse at a Party Leads to War, it uses what i believe are binomial coefficients and summations. I assume the same are required for my problem. The reason i am having trouble is because I never learned these things. please explain or tell me how to do this.

Dream interpretation .. Names?

The man might be trying to say if you'll name him Levi, he might end up doing good and making you proud. "Levi" might grow up to do something well. But if you name him Ka'eo Who knows what will happen. It's probably a deceased relative telling you what to do but I;m not really sure.. This world is filled with the most vivid things

How can I help my friend get out of this habit? Should she see a therapist?

Since the of 12 years old my bestie has always carried on numerous of "phone relationships" with guys without ever meeting them ever! She has always been self-conscious about her looks when she is SO beautiful I wish I had a pic to post, but anyway she is 29 years old now and still doing the same thing. This isn't normal to me! She gets really attached to them and when it's time to meet she makes excuses not to and they get mad and leave her alone. What should I do to help her. I want her to stop. I want her to find someone, actually date them and start a life. Should she see a therapist? What can I do to help her?

Having pain in first trimester.?

How do I know if I am having nerve problems or ectopic pregnancy. It sometimes seems to start near the lower right of my spine and a crampy hot pain seems to travel around the top of right hip and under the front of the hip. Sometimes when I am relaxing its get much worse. Like when I am sleeping. This is the third pregnancy and I lost the other two. I was put on progesterone a week ago. I could be wrong, but it seems like the pain got a little stronger when I started it. This isn't constant pain. It seems like if I move around a bit and maybe take a bathroom break, the pain seems to leave. It doesn't seem to last for than 5 minutes maybe tops.

Update to my last post?

I would like to thank you all for your advice on my last post. I took my puppy to the vets earlier today. She checked him over after i had explained to her what was going on. She said he is an over confident puppy that is trying to get ahead of me in the "pack". She also told me this behaviour is common in dogs aged 12-8 months, she has never seen it in a puppy of 5 months and its a little worrying. She has recommended i get him castrated as soon as possible before he hits "puberty" as things may get out of control if he continues with this behaviour. She recommended that i also buy a harness and i attach a lead to him so i can remove him without having to touch him. She assured me that with the kids it was just playing. I also mentioned i was due to be getting another puppy in just over a weeks time did she think it was a good idea. She said she thinks it would be a good idea as it would give him someone to play with also it may calm his confidence down slightly as he will tire himself out and give him someone to show what is what. I did mention as well because some people have told me it is my fault for not training him properly, she assured me that his basic training must be fine because he responds to commands my 4 year old gives him but he doesn't see her as a threat because she is not top dog. I just hope castration works, he is booked in next week, by which time he will be 5 and a half months old. I will keep you posted

Do navy seals use martial arts or something else?

Last I knew they used a hand to hand combat style that was made of technics taken from a number of unarmed combat styles. Most of it was based on judo, but added moves from other martial arts.

My wife refuses to stop drinking and smoking during pregnancy..?

im pretty sure this is a joke, which ISNT funny. but if this is not a joke, you both belong in jail and i hope you get there soon. idiots.

Are cramps during first trimester normal?

I took a pregnancy test yesterday and it was positive. I've been having moderate cramps, I have no bleeding and my breasts are sore. how can you tell if you have normal pregnancy cramps or irregular ones?

Am I eating healthy enough in first trimester?

I am 10 weeks pregnant and having the usual nausea/food aversions/sensitivities to smell. I am taking a prenatal vitamin and usually have a bowl of total raisin bran with fruit in the morning, or eggs, and sometimes both. The rest of the day, however, my appetite declines and I find it difficult to eat much of high nutritional value. Yesterday I had TWO Auntie Ann's pretzels and cheese sauce for lunch, a peach for a snack, and pb & j for dinner with a yogurt, although I was very nauseous after dinner. The soft pretzels are my one HUGE craving right now, and I have been eating a ridiculous number of these, so many that I told my husband we're going to have a pretzel in 7 months, lol. Does anyone have a take on this? Am I getting enough nutrition? Is it okay to binge on Auntie Ann's constantly? I'd appreciate any thoughts- thanks!

Pregnant - Im Horny ALL THE TIME!?

I just found out that I'm pregnant. I'm about 5-6 weeks for so, and my first pregnancy. I'm and constantly and non-stop horny. I could just have sex in 5 minutes, I want it again. I did see that in the second trimester is the time it happens mostly. But, I'm not that far along. Did anyone have this happen to them too? Is it normal? I have a wonderful boyfriend that goes along with it, but I'm worried he will get sick of it, because I know I am.

Is it normal to start leaking urine in your 3rd trimester, and what causes it?

possible the little one pressing on your bladder but it happened to me sometimes..... i actually peed my pants completely one time uhg

Excruciating stomach pains...?

I get stomach aches that hit me all the sudden. The pain fluctuates. It gets unbearably bad, to the point where you can't sit still and feel like crawling out of your skin. A minute later it will subdue, just to arise again. I've kept track of what I'm eating and there doesn't seem to be a correlation between what I eat. I think food triggers it and makes it worse, but it's not every time I eat. Episodes are short, anywhere from 5- 30 minutes. I've tried everything, ibuprofen, tums. Nothing helps. Any ideas on what this could be?

Does this sound like an interesting plot idea?

The first paragraph was FANTASTIC - I think you could make that BRILLIANT, but I think as you went further along it was a new take on Robinson Crusoe :P

What does this quote mean?

"Never get too attached to anyone because attachment leads to expectations and expectations lead to disappointment".

What weapons are illegal to use in self defense of another?

Depends on the state, and really your differentiating the difference between use of force laws and weapons laws. For example, its illegal in Texas to carry around an illegal knife. Its legal to use lethal force in certain situations. If, lets say you were robbed, and were carrying a Bowie knife (an illegal knife in Texas. . .I know sad) and killed the bad guy you'd have two separate issues. The use of deadly force, which probably would have been justified, and the carring of an illegal weapon. The guy would probably would get a misdemeaner charge for carrying of Illegal weapons.

Top Finger Nail Ripped?

I usually grow my finger nails long and i get too lazy to cut them. I was going to cut them in a few days until my left pointer finger nail started ripping off. Not like the whole nail coming off but only the top. (The white part of the top finger nail). The skin is like attached to the nail and it's like hanging on to it. The more it came off the more it was bleeding. Right now it's like on the end of the nail and is hanging on to the skin. I am not pulling it off because it hurts a lot when i do. All i really see right now is blood and the skin peeling off. It kinda reminds me of a tooth. Like when your tooth is loose and it's hanging onto that thingy that hangs. Just like that except it's the finger nail and the skin attacted to it. I just wanted to know if the nail will grow back and will my skin heal?

If you were pregnant with twins, and chose to abort them, what would happen?

even if only one twin was aborted (assuming they aren't identical) the other twin would most likely miscarry due to stress, the doctors should be able to tell there are twins.

How can I get this to heal faster? ****Please help!****?

There is really not much you can do to make it heal faster.The best thing to do is just keep it clean. Also don't cover it up with a bandage it will heal faster if it is exposed to air but try not to make to much contact with sunlight because it may leave a scar.

Is the guy I am dating just a non-talker or just uninterested in me?

ive been dating a guy for a month now. so in the beginning he did tell me that he's not really the chatty type & i was ok w/ it b/c i thought that since he's a loner, he's prob. used to not talking much. he also said the reason why he's not talkative b/c he is not a douche. so i got the hint that communication between us would be very limited & i was ok w/ it as long as we were getting to know each other. however now i am getting more comfortable talking to him and hanging out w/ him, i am starting to think that he's bored w/ me b/c he doesn't say much. its not like i talk too much. he does live a subdued life and he hardly laughs, just smiles here & there. dont get me wrong, he makes me smile but sometimes when i ask/say something & i see that he's somewhere else or he just nods, it makes me wonder if he's less interested in me or if he is what he said before, that he's just not the chatty type. i dont want to waste my time on someone who just wants me for the goods & dont care about having a conversation w/ me. but i dont want to dismiss him b/c he lacks verbal skills.

How does a premature babie�s immune system develop over time?

I know their system is weaker to begin with because they might not have received the antibodies from their mother during the last trimester (and they also might have a deficiency of p40) but at what point do they �catch up�?

Does anyone know of a song similar to Satie's Gnossienne 1?

I absolutely love Satie's first Gnossienne and would love to walk down the aisle to it at my wedding, but my bridesmaids are all telling me its too subdued and not enough of a march to walk down the aisle to. Does anyone know of a similar sounding piano song that would perhaps work better to walk to? I know most of you will tell me that its my wedding and I should just use whatever music I want, but I would like some legitimate suggestions of what I could use in lieu of Satie's work. Thank you!

How do I proceed after five years?

Say goodbye and do not contact her because it will be worse this time than it was last time. You cannot give mixed emotions. She has a career that's more important than you right now. You do not want a girlfriend so she doesn't need you. One day you will know when you decide to have a girlfriend but with the sound of your words it looks like you're afraid to get rejected again. Once again, do not contact her anymore. Let her go. Never look back.

Why do my liberal supporters claim that I am in effect a weak leader, much weaker than Bush?

obama is weak. Bush wasn't. ever hear of 9-11? yeah- THAT'S what caused all this ****. al-queda buddy. have you ever seen the pictures of bush on 9-11? did you ever bother to look at the REAL story? or did you listen to your parent's opinions and not make your own? or did you just say; obama is black so he's better?(yes, obama is mixed, NOT BLACK)

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Is a spirit attached to me or am I crazy ?

Ok to get into further detail let me explain I lost my grandma ( Mema ) November 21, 2009 and I wanna know if she is trying to communicate with me.....First off thing that happened was one night my light kept flickering on and off so I got up and turned it off.....next I had a outer body experience where it felt like I had got up but I really couldn't move for real for bout 30 seconds when I went to wake up and during this 30 seconds I felt myself talking to her or bout her......then the next day me and my friend was playing the game and talking when we heard something fall upstairs but when we went to go investigate everything was like we left it.....and now I get this feeling where I get goose bumps and feel like somebody is watching me.....I need help I'm losing sleep and I'm kinda scared

Tooth extraction in the first trimester?

My tooth is falling apart and I was wondering if it is safe to get it removed. Will anastethic etc affect my pregnancy? Or should I hold out till the 2nd trimester? I'm 10 weeks tomorrow. Thanks

When does the 2nd trimester start?

1st trimester ends at 12 weeks.. so 2nd trimester starts at 12 weeks and 1 day (13th week) congrats!

What should i do with my guinea pig?

My guinea pig had a baby 1 week and a half ago and I checked today and found out it was a boy... I really don't want to get rid of it because I've grown attached to it and its already used to me and likes me, and I only have on cage its 54in x 20 cage and I can't get another one... any ideas on how I can keep it without getting the mom pregnant?

How Do you Post a Video Response on YouTube?

As of June 30, 2011 YouTube changed their layout.... AGAIN. You used to be able to post a video response by clicking the comment box and clicking "Attach Video" but its not there anymore! How do I post a video response?

DAMAGED HAIR! please help me!?

u better cut that s*** before them split ends travel . Hair can't be healthy if u got all that going on .

Does this sound like a good idea?

Hm, maybe a little too much.. I mean not like 5th grade spelling bee! yeah no.. Maybe like stuff and they'll be like wow, prob not on an extra sheet or they might think your desperate

Is it normal to get stretch marks on your thighs during the second trimester of pregnancy?

I am now 19 weeks pregnant. I have been putting sretch mark cream on my belly since about 10 weeks. I already have a big belly to be 19 weeks, and don't have stretch marks on my belly! I never thought to put some on my thighs....I was always average weight for my age and height so it kinda bothers me that I have them! I know it's normal to get vericose veins, but is it normal to get stretch marks at 19 weeks?

Looking For A Burn Notice Episode Where...?

Fiona gets kidnapped with some other woman. Michael is looking for her, and she sets off a bomb so he can see the smoke. She breaks out after talking to her captor, and they attach a fake bomb to his chest. They get away safely. The final scene is of Fiona entering a room with Michael and Jesse. Michael sees her and they embrace. Also, Michael's mom tells Jesse that Fiona doesn't love him. I just need the title. Thanks!

I am upgrading my pc but it is very old and i want to upgrade graphic card but there is no slot of pcie vga .?

so wats the solution should i change my motherboard or is their any other way to attach a graphic card slot ...... my motherboard has 3 white 32bit pci slots but the are very outdated ........so give me any solution my budget is not very high that i buy new computer so tell chap solutions .......

How do I develop the emotional connection with this girl?

We already have the physical flirting attraction and connection, but it seems like she won't let me emotionally get to her. How do i get her emotionally attached to me? So far I've tried sweet talk, telling her how i feel, gifts here and there, etc. Is there something specific that I could do that would make a difference? Please help and thank you :)

Dreamed i had a daughter?

alright im a guy so i had this dream i remember bits and pieces of it but some of the other stuff is scratchy but all try and start from the beginning i remember i was trying to get my wife and daughter who in this point in time was a baby to safety i distinctively remember calling her hailey i remember my wife was one of my best-friends i used to like and in my dream i felt a hatred for her like i was angry at her but that's not the part that im attached to so anyways i got them to safety but still something happened this is the part that i don't really remember all i really remember is the next part im walking up to the front yard were hailey and my wife are and hailey is about four or five she was very cute and she had some of my features but none of my wife's my best-friend and me have black hair and brown eyes but hailey had blonde hair and brown eyes i remember being there for her the emotions i felt for her were intense extreme protectiveness i loved her more then anything in this world as a daughter and i feel like shes real somehow but me my friend and hailey were walking on a beach and this big helicopter pulled down i remember the fear in Hailey's eyes they took them away another two years went by and i was with my step-dad and his brother i remember being in this thing that was above ground long story short my step-dads brother jumped out of this plane thing and got seriously injured so we bring him to a scientist research business slash hospital to get healed so we were on are way to the room he was in and i run in to this business lady and she was one of the the ones that took hailey so i attack her and grab her phone and got out of there i was just about to find were hailey was and the i woke up when i woke up i felt sad that i couldn't save her and that i couldn't see her at least one last time can anyone tell me what this dream means oh and im sixteen i would appreciate it.

Why is everyone giving Casey Anthony such a hard time?

When all she did was exercise her freedom of choice? Is it just because her daughter was in the 16th trimester at the time? Why should that matter? It's not like her daughter was fully developed or anything.

Does bad news for the tea party = good news for america?

I don't know if god had anything to do with it, but a Democrat in the White House and a Democratic -controlled Congress has always been good for the U.S.

Ramadon: need to some interpretation this verse please?

these are known as verses of the sword and they abrogated all the earlier peaceful verses of the quran. one of the last verses given is sura 9:5 when the scared months for fighting are past, fight and kill the non-believers wherever you find them, take them hostage, torture them and lie in wait and ambush them using every stratgem of war. they are dozens of suras calling on muslims to kill the non-muslims; look up suras 4:89 8:12 2:191 2:193 8:39 8:7 to just name a few.

Is there anyway to attach a water bottle to a belt?

This would be so handy as I usually take a backpack with me simply to carry some water. Anyway to do this with it being reasonably comfortable?

How can I save all my files from my computer to online?

Im selling my laptop and I have one folder with all my stuff in it. its about 10gb of stuff. Is there any websites where I can attach my folder full of stuff and email it to myself or drop my files on a online storage of some sort?

This girl thinks I like her? Pleaseee help?

Hi, I was recently flirting with this girl, Kristina, who I liked two years ago, but now that I'm leaving for another town and to another school, she worked up the courage to tell me her feelings, she asked me two questions, if I liked Jackie, which is another girl that I'm always with, but nothings going on between me and her, and if I liked her (Kristina) two years ago. I said I didn't like Jackie, and that I did like kristina two years ago, but since she can't speak much english, I think she misunderstood and thinks I STILL like her. She sent me texts with pictures attached to them saying I love you and S + K. ( S is my first name initial.) What do I do? I don't like her, only as a friend, but I don't want to hurt her feelings.

Does it seem like Law Enforcement Officers are stepping over the line more lately?

I mean the past few months there isn't a morning that I don't wake up and hear 3 or 4 stories about an officer or more beating an un-armed/subdued civilian, children/elderly people shot with taser's, and Law Enforcement Officers arresting people for filming them. Reporters in general seem to be being cracked down on. Above all else what I am worried about and what I am seeing is in America there seems to be this growing "Us vs Them" mentality with regards to civilians vs law enforcement. So what's going on?

Story rephrase help!!!!!!!?

Can I suggest that you join one of the online writers forums. writers.net writing.com critiquecircle.com I think they would be a better place to get advice of this kind and it would allow you to post a larger sample, because at the moment what you have posted here is just confusing.

Is everyone overloaded with fatigue their first trimester?

like I am. I feel sooo tired all the time it is so irritating. The same thing happened with my first baby and second trimester my energy shot back up.

I've never understood the silly pro-choice v pro-life debates?

Why can't one be both pro-choice and pro-life. I mean after watching an abortion just take place yesterday(7 mnths), i really fely i was witnessing some of the most gruelsome times in my life. The doctors and the medical staff just ignored the baby as it was crying. I have always been against laws banning abortion or criminalizing it, but after this I can see why some people try to legislate on it. But wouldn't it be a better idea if the babies aborted after a certain date or trimester were kept in that cube box(i cant remember the name) and given up for abortion when they reach proper birth age. Wouldn't that solve a lot of these problems and put some kind of an end to this debates

How do I finish with someone who hurts me when I get too attached?

When I know I am being mistreated instead of finishing it, I go quiet and get worried. I put up with it & this had led me to physical abuse from partners in the past. It's like I can't DEMAND to be treated well or something. When he says 'if you go out dancing every again we're finished. I am not the sort that can say. Get lost then, instead, I don't dance..... I know he's not treating me well, but I told him, right don't phone tonight. Now, wierdly, I started missing him immediately, even though he threw me out of his house because I moved his ex's jumper from the spot he keeps it in. It's like ocd with him, he keeps 'memento's of everyone who's died or left him & his home is more & more like a shrine. He went crazy at me for moving an item, yet here I am - missing his voice & wishing we could of got married..... is it possible that some woman LIKE being treated bad? It's almost like he commands I respect him, so I do? I don't understand how to love myself enough to make ME be treated better?????

Do black shoes match a navy blue dress?

Personally, I would go with a nude or champagne color shoe. But I think if the navy blue is a dark enough blue, the black shoes will be fine and no one will really be able to notice the difference.

What do you think of my short story?

i love it u should get this a little longer or turn it into a magizean that is the best short story i have ever read

If I make a facebook status (with a photo attached) and make it friends only excluding some people...?

Basically... I made a status update of a wall photo and I accidently made it friends only excluding some people and I wondered if it was possible for me to make it so all my friends can see it again without having to reupload it?

Question on self defense and possible consequences?

Each case differs depending on the intent and with or without weapons. Washington state is a no self defense state so you need to be real clear on the legistic of the case and whether or what the intent was and if there was a weapon presend and weather a weapon was brought to the situation. All the facts matter. Visit your local library which will give you all the info you need on the laws and how they work depending on each case.

What makes you call someone "an intellectual"?

Someone who has a strong foundation in both 'informational intelligence' and 'emotional intelligence'. Someone who is balanced and can speak from their mind fluidly without being 'blocked' from thinking for themselves based on societal trends.

Do we deserve a refund after a festival has failed?

About 15-20000 people went to a music festival in Bulgaria. During the first day of the festival the headliner (Jamiroquai) twisted his ankle and did not show up.They announced his absence at around 20:00 hour.The second day didn't even start as there were winds of up to 80-100 km/h. So now after this enormous failure, the promoters want to refund only the tickets with which people haven't entered the arena during the first day (which is insane as you could imagine how little people would have remained outside the gates after 8 pm) and refund tickets for the second day,but only if they have a bill attached to them (which in the late afternoon of the first day they were removing,knowing that people will need them for the refund). So any advice on how to proceed

Is this a good poem for this girl?

that's soooo cute! just don't say it to her directly. because she's just going to look at you weird haha. but if you don't want it to be in cyberspace where she can send it to anybody, don't post it online for her.

My step son is stealing from my house?

My partner and I have a 3 month old together. I also have a 16 year old and seven year old to my husband who passed away. My current partner has a 12 year old daughter to one woman, and a 11 year old son and 7 year old daughter to another woman. He has his kids over every second weekend and any other time the mothers ask him to, which lately has been most weekends. These kids are very poorly behaved. 2 visits ago the 11 year old boy was standing on the edge of the pool peeing in it and the 7 year old poohed beside the pool. Neither child was smacked, just told if they did it again they would be banned for a while. They run around my house all weekend. Make mess everywhere. Grab fresh towels for every swim and every shower. Only eat crap food. To the point where I really can't be bothered cooking for them any more cause they just say Yuk! and don't eat it. The very last visit they were going through my boxes downstairs, these boxes where sealed. I caught them and told them in no uncertain terms to stay out of them. I have my dead husband in an urn in one of those boxes and a heap of other valuables. I also have a presents box with new stuff I had bought on sale that is great for gifts. This box had been gone through. Again I said stay away from my things. The night after they left, I found tags from the new things in the box discarded on the floor and noticed that the items attached to these tags had disappeared. I told my partner and he rang his son and he had the items. He said my 7 year old daughter said he could have them, which I know is rubbish because she was the one that alerted me to them going through my stuff. My partner saw he had some of his stuff from downstairs when he was leaving but decided he could have what he had found of his. He asked him what else he had in his bag, and he said nothing. I should have insisted we check his bag but didn't. My partner believes that he hasn't done anything wrong because he believes my 7 year old said he could have my stuff. Forget that I said said stay away from my boxes and even asked him to reinforce that. I get so frustrated. These aren't my children, but this is my house. Shouldn't I have more control in my own home?

Thoughts on my cast of characters?

I enjoy the entire concept but instead of killing Izene could you. make it look like everyone thinks she is dead but she some how comes back by some strange power. because readers will want to put down the book if they find out the protagonists partner cannot be trusted at all, especially female readers. Make it so that Izene comes back and gets Tel out of his pathetic phase by knocking some kind of sense into him. But its just a suggestion after all it is your book.

Frequent painful cramps in 2nd trimester?

I'm 15 weeks 5 days pregnant with baby #2. I got a few cramps early on and my doc said it was my uterus stretching. They stopped for awhile, but now i get them when i go up and down the stairs, lift something with difficulty, or do much physical work at all. My son is 24 lbs, and i get cramps when i pick him up. Sometimes i get cramps for no reason at all. They're almost debilitating, and i have to sit still and groan until they go away. There is no bleeding, but i still don't feel that it's normal. I have my next pre-natal appointment tomorrow, so i will ask then. But in the meantime, has anyone else had this? Is this something to worry about? I missed my vitamins for awhile, but have started taking them again. Help? Thank you.

What can Christians do to free atheists from Satan's dominion?

Those who reject God are under Satans dominion. If Satan says to jump, atheists jump. The more "free thinkers" ask how high. Still, it is the duty of Christians to collectively subdue Satan. Any suggestions?

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Unknown device connected to my router?

As I was looking at the configuration of my router, I found a "Generic device" connected to my WLAN. This is not a connection that I authorized, but I recognize the name attached to that device, which is that of the computer scientist father of a person whom I had allowed to share my connection. What does this mean? Are they able to monitor that connection?

Does this sound like an interesting plot idea?

I really like it. I like the hatch in the sea floor, the underground lake, and people who have turned away from the world above. Lots here to like. One thing though, the ruler wanting to harness the creature's powers for evil is overdone, the kind of thing we've seen before.

Can someone please give me some feedback on my poem?

I am so glad I took the time to read this!!..It is simply great..I love the way you took the rhythm of the Poe poem and wove your poem..AND even more you have a powerful message with it..Please re-post this when more are online and you can get more comments..This is a real little jewel..

Pregnant- and BF wants to live with me, but I don't?

Sounds like a control freak to me. I suggest you dont give in. If you dont want him living with you he needs to respect that. He cant force you to put the baby up for adoption. I wouldnt worry about that. Stand strong and dont give in to what he wants! Good luck and congrads.

Best-selling, lightweight, completely-enclosed, 2-passenger, high-mpg, 3-wheeled car in the world? -- MORE --?

There are several three-wheeled vehicles being developed for sale in the USA. My favorite is the Aptera... a href="http://www.aptera.com/" rel="nofollow"http://www.aptera.com//a

How do I attach an image with a question on this site?

I found an old photograph taken by a famous photographic company Elliott and Fry of Bakers St London and I believe it is someone famous as their clients were all famous people. How can I put the image on the site for identification?

How much weight should i gain per trimester?

im 14 and almost 2 months pregnant. ive gained about 10lbs and i think thats way alot. is that a sign of multiples? or am i just eating way to much?

How much weight should I gain during the first trimester of pregnancy?

I went to the the Dr. today for my check up and I have gained 5 lbs I am 11 weeks and 4 days so almost 12 weeks. Is that to much weight to gain for the first trimester? Or is that normal? How much weight did you gain in the first trimester? And what is the average weight gain during the first trimester? thanks (:

Does he still have feelings for me?

So I met this guy thru a mutual friend a few months ago. We had a bit of a fling going on. We both cared about eachother but it was bad timing because I had just gotten out of a bad relationship and not ready for another one and he knew that so we decided to just be friends with benefits. We have never slept with eachother, we discussed it but he said despite him wanting to he wasn't going to because I meant more to him then just sex and he knew I wasn't the type of girl that just hooked up with people which is something he liked about me. Anyway now that we are just friends he still sometimes acts like he likes me and I really am afraid to get attached to him again. We talk everyday, we make future plans to go to concerts and such, he has called me beautiful, told me that I impress him, told me that I could rock this tiny dress and flirts with me and lately we have hung out alot, about every day which is not normal for him to do. However the past two times we hung out he had brought two different of his ex girlfriends. One of them he ended up in a fight the next day with and the other one I think he thinks im jealous of cause we had a fight and I got mad and said he slept with her, so I don't know why he is bringing his ex-gfs around. also, i heard him say to a friend the other day that he was ready to settle down after the summer and he knows what girl he wants. I don't know but I have a feeling it could be me because he never mentioned this girl before and he wouldn't give her name or much details while I was standing there but he doesnt really talk to any other girl like he does with me so I don't know. I guess I just want to know how to tell if he still has feelings for me and thinks of me in that way or he has moved on and we are just friends.

Does this make any sense to you?

ive been seeing this guy for over a year,nothing offical yet. he said he doesnt want a relationship and i know hes not fooling around on me. after a year,im almost positive of it. today i asked him, "hypothetically..if i was to have another man i was seeing taking me out,sleeping in my bed,kissing me and making love to me in rotation to you..what would you do?" he responded with it would change things with us because its not cool to be with two people at the same time. he also stated he cant get mad at me for it if what i want is a serious relationship..he doesnt want to hold me back from that. this,to me is all very confusing. he says were not commited but if i test the waters with other men and then things will change (even worse than now) which i could only assume he'd sever ties with me. its like commitment with nocommitment. its like strings attached with no strings attached..but..with the strings..attached. can anyone make any sense out of this? its like hes trying to convince himself of something. im not concerned about the status of the relationship as much as i am curious about what kind of "logic" is behind all this contradiction. if i see other people its okay but it would change things? at a smaller point whats the best way to help him come to his senses. ive decided i should cut contact down.

What are the chances he still has some feelings for me?

I think he for sure still has feelings for you, at least thats how it sounds. He looks at you and all those memories of your relationship come flooding back and he probably misses the good times you guys shared. At the same time he likes being able to do whatever the h*ll wants to with out consequences. It takes a while to get over any relationship, no matter how long it lasted, and my guess is just like you hes not completely over what you guys had. I'm sure he thought he was over you until you guys hung out and he saw you and realized how much things have changed. How you want to handle this is up to you, you could talk to him? See if he will open up to you and tell you what he's really feeling. Tell him you need to hang out with him one on one and just get everything off your chest and see what he says. OR you can move on, because honestly hun you deserve SOO MUCH BETTER. By telling you he "needs you" and all that he might just be making sure you'll hang on just a little bit longer, in case things get tough and he needs someone to fall back on. Which is a jerk thing to do. Find yourself a man who loves you for you, doesn't drink to be happy or do drugs, someone who makes you their world because they think your the greatest thing the ever walk into their life.

Crazy question about the laws regarding dogs for protection?

Just the other day a police dog that was being put in the officers patrol car attacked a woman who was jogging by his home .The police officer told the jogger to stop running and he would,nt attack well she stopped> The dog bit her legs and arms.She got 30 stitches,and there were no fines issued because it was a policeman's dog They in home guarantied the dogs because he had its shots.Well a dog of ours went over a fence to the neighbors yard and they called the police I got 2 fines one for nuisance dog and failure to leash where is the justice here?.This is the second time the police dog has bitten someone.The police in this case should have either comeback at another time or call animal control.The last dog I had was small u..p s and people wearing uniforms the dog would go after and bite she was a terrier/chiahuah 10 lbsThe dog in this case was doing his job,Iam sure he could, have used pepper spray or something other than shooting it

1st Trimester spotting?

Hi. I am 8-9 weeks pregnant with my 4th child. I started a little bit of spotting on Friday. It stopped as fast as it started but then returned briefly on Saturday. Then I had it again on Monday. Today is Thursday and it has not yet returned. The spotting is only upon wiping and is a red-brown color (however on monday it was more a bright red). I have no cramping or have not recently had sex or a pelvic exam. I have called the nurse and am going in tomorrow to see the doctor. Meanwhile, wondering if this has happened to anyone else and if so, what was the outcome? Thanks!

Does surgery really hurt?

God im so scared. Tomorrow, im having surgery on my elbow. I was tripped on concrete and I fractured my elbow. A mini bone in my elbow shattered off and its 2 millimeters away from where it used to be attached to. The surgery is one hour long. They will put wires in my arm. I'm so scared. Does surgery hurt during and does it hurt after? Please give me tips and info... :) Also, I will be asleep!

Where can I turn to now when all the shrinks can't help me?

Everything has failed to subdue me. Now everything seems dull: another sunrise, the lives of heroes, falling in love, war, the discoveries people make about each other. The only thing that doesn't bore me, obviously enough, is how much money my colleague makes, and yet in its obviousness it does. There isn't a clear, identifiable emotion within me, except for greed and, possibly, total disgust. I have all the characteristics of a human being — flesh, blood, skin, hair — but my depersonalization is so intense, has gone so deep, that the normal ability to feel compassion has been eradicated, the victim of a slow, purposeful erasure. I am simply imitating reality, a rough resemblance of a human being, with only a dim corner of my mind functioning. Something horrible is happening and yet I cannot figure out why; I cannot put my finger on it.

Guy problems!!! PLEASE ANSWER!?

so, me and this guy have been, well, "sex buddies" for like two months. after we're done doing the do, he wants me to stick around so we can just chill and talk about life. at first, i didn't know how to respond (i wouldn't really open up) because in public he would ignore me despite a lot of people knowing. but every time we kept going on, i felt more attached to the guy, even though i was moving away. and the last time i saw him, he didn't even want to do the nasty- he just wanted to sit in the park and talk. so stupidly, on the last day, i fb messaged him and told him i liked him alot (i did the whole time, i just didn't allow myself to have feelings i guess) he never responded. now i think about him all of the time and question if i'm in love with him or not. now i'm moving back and don't know what to do because i'll be seeing him again... because we work at the same place. what should i do?

What does it take for a weapon such as a taser to be considered deadly?

In order for the weapon to be deadly it must produce that result consistently. You could be killed with a bb gun, but that would not be a consistent result of using that bb gun so it is not a "deadly" weapon even though you in fact did die because of it. For it to be deadly it must produce that result by design.

How can I get up without waking up my girlfriend?

My girlfriend is in her third trimester of pregnancy so she doesn't get a whole lot of sleep. When I get up I always wake her up and she can't go back to sleep. Occasionally I need a drink of tea or to go to the bathroom and I wake her up getting out of bed. I normally sleep with my arms around her and she will hold one of them so I'm kind of locked in place. She's a really light sleeper and has had trouble staying asleep so I just want to make sure she doesn't lose any on my account. Any suggestions? Thanks!

Joint Pain During Pregnancy?

By the symptoms u have and u feel ur having a girl.... I was like dat from my daughter I didnt have nausea or headache or vomiting... I use to just feel so tired and really heavy..

Can I eat sushi at 6 weeks pregnant?

Hi! I'm really craving some sushi, and am in my first trimester (5 or 6 weeks). Will a little sushi harm the baby? I just want a roll or two, and probably only spicy tuna.

Did you know that Scott Hall was just sent to jail?

Yeah I heard the news just yesterday. In my opinion, it's getting ridiculous. If his health is so bad that they want him to be in a health unit, then he should not be competing in wrestling events. Hopefully Scott will get back on the right path. Also, if Scott did not want to serve the 10 days, he should have hired Jeff Hardy's attorney.

Ladies, what are your thoughts on a sexual relationship with a younger man?

Hello, in my situation its casual sex with an 18 year old. I love it, no strings attached, he has a great sex drive, and its fun teaching him. Anyone with experience please tell me your story and feel free to email me.

Does a striped tie matched a subtly striped suit?

The colors match, but the tie has rich, distinct stripes and the suit has subdued stripes that are hardly there.

Is it normal for your tummy to feel tender during early pregnancy, late first trimester?

when I push around or above my pelvic bone it's a little tender, it feels funny. & so mild cramping nothing painful

Sometimes, I skip my lunch and eat only fruit.It seems such a relief from the usual routine?

you should do this , In a week ,one day take something different , just do in every week , take food which will not effect your health , and always visit your doctor

Nose and throat clogged at night; second trimester?

Feels like I have to gasp for breath at times and always clearing my throat at night. Usually no problems with allergies, can this be pregnancy related? I've found online they say it makes your nose stuffy, but should it affect your throat and breathing too?

Weight loss during third trimester?

I am 37 weeks pregnant, I had stayed at the same weight for 8 consecutive weeks, and then when I went to my appointment today, I had lost 6 kilos since my last appointment. This means I lost about 13 lbs in two weeks. Is this normal? I hear of people losing 1 or 2 pounds, but not 13 pounds. My doctor wasn't quite sure what to think either..

What should be my daily requirements in second trimester.?

For the whole pregnancy, you should double all your daily requirements for nutrients and food groups etc. After all, you are also feeding a second person with your mouth.

Do you think advancing in science is more important the bothering with religion?

I personally think so, I haven't seen religion do anything ''miraculous'' as science has. Religion to me sort of makes me want less freedom of speech in order to subdue chaos in an area since many other religions exist and branches of that religion, and yet there is only one ''form'' of science...huh...what do you think?

Is the prophesy (at Surah:47:4) in the Qu'ran being fulfilled right now (in the Middle East)?

No. All religious scriptures are way to vague for that - you can twist the words into anything you want it to mean. That�s why they are so popular.

How have I arrived at this place? Is there any hope for me?

Everything has failed to subdue me. Now everything seems dull: another sunrise, the lives of heroes, falling in love, war, the discoveries people make about each other. The only thing that doesn't bore me, obviously enough, is how much money my colleague makes, and yet in its obviousness it does. There isn't a clear, identifiable emotion within me, except for greed and, possibly, total disgust. I have all the characteristics of a human being — flesh, blood, skin, hair — but my depersonalization is so intense, has gone so deep, that the normal ability to feel compassion has been eradicated, the victim of a slow, purposeful erasure. I am simply imitating reality, a rough resemblance of a human being, with only a dim corner of my mind functioning. Something horrible is happening and yet I cannot figure out why; I cannot put my finger on it.

Can i connect my iphone to an internet connection using windows xp on my laptop?

Hi my iphones wifi antenna is broken so it does not pick up on any wifi signals no matter how close you are to the router. I was wondering is it possible to connect my iphone to the internet using the usb cord attached to my laptop if my laptop is picking up a wireless signal. Im not trying to teather a connection i just want to get internet for my iphone using my laptops wifi connection. please help. by the way i would need to know how to do this using windows xp

Friday, July 15, 2011

I am a current Navy Corpsman reservist that is transfering to the USAFR. Am I allowed to wear my FMF pin?

I have been a Corpsman for 8 years and have earned my FMF pin. I am transfering to the Air Force as an Aeromedical Tech. I have scoured the AF regs and seen some info on wearing other service ribbons and medals but have seen nothing to do with Warfare Qualifiers. Even if I am allowed to wear it in uniform, does the AF print a subdued blue FMF patch to wear in the AF camo uniform?

Might be pregnant and up for promotion?

My husband and I have been "casually" trying to get pregnant for the last few months. We haven't put a lot of effort in it you could say. My company just realigned and I have been offered the opportunity to apply for a new position. This would require my family to move and I would be busy on this project for the next year. I am not guaranteed the position but I have been strongly encouraged to apply so I would say it is a very strong possibility. The problem is now that I may in fact be pregnant. It is too early to test, but I am just anticipating what I should do if I am. I want to do the right thing as this a multi-million dollar project I would be working on and I don't want to get it move out ther and suddenly announce guess what folks I'm pregnant, but at the same time I don't want to sayu anything until after my first trimester because so many thinsg can happen....I know if I was pregnant, I can do the work and will still work just as hard and as well post baby, but I know it would be hard on my company for me to be out for 2 months at that time too. Has anyone been in this position before? How did it work out>

Help me heal this injured bird?

I have a cat that is a murderous little bugger, and he always brings in birds. the bird you have sounds like its been hurt quite bad and to be fair, it will probably not make it for several reasons.. 1) cat salaiva is very poisonous to birds and send them into septic shock and kills them. 2) the bird will die from shock of the whole ordeal. 3) the injury will probably get infected. because of where it is, it will carry on opening. if you do take it to the vets, they will more than likely put it down. hope i helped.

11 weeks not feeling right?

Your sense of smell and taste changes when you are pregnant. Usually I am a wimp with spicy food. When I was pregnant I was chowing down on hot wings like nothing while my friends were burning their mouths off. The burning in your throat and nose may be a cold you are coming down with though. Just keep an eye on those.

Weight gain during pregnancy?

Your weight gain is fine. The same thing happened to me. I lost 6 lbs when I first got pregnant, had gained it back by 18 weeks when my belly popped, then I started piling on the weight out of no where. I gained a total of 65 lbs while I was pregnant even thought I was eating right and exercising as often as I could. I gave birth 13 days ago and I've lost 45 lbs already because so much of the weight I gained was water weight. Everyone gains weight differently, but it's really nothing to worry about.

Is spotting a good sign during your first trimester?

I had intercourse during the shower and after that i started bleeding. It was light but now I am very scared of what it could be.

Im confused, if congressman pacquiao is relying on the bible?

and he opposes the rh bill saying that it is against God or the bible ( which i dont think is right as "go forth and multiply" implies filling the earth and subdue it which means control or manage),my question is , it is clear in the bible, Ephesians 5:18 (New International Version)Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, why is it that the congressman has (atleast to my knowledge )two tv commercials or tv ads endorsing a brand of beer and the other a brand of gin?

Anyone else been a total Witch in the first trimester?

I'm suprised my fiancee hasn't left me. I have been that horrible. It just seems like everything he does drives me CRAZY! Does all this moodiness end after the first trimester? I sure hope so!

I have a supernatural power but I dont know what to do with it?

You simply plagiarized this wall of text. I have verified it simply by copying a chunk of what you said as pasting it in google. The result gave me the link below:

Simple hamster cage without wheel ?

i have a hamster cage but i want a silent spinner in it but theres not enough room so i want to get a simple cage with no wheel or a wheel that comes off . I just want to attach that simple cage to the one i have now so i dont really want much in it . Does the critter universe ECO wheel come off ? Cuz if it does ill get that but anywhere you know where i can buy a cheapppppp cage like that ? Thanks (:

Will my grades affect my classes for next year?

welllllllll my grades were slipping for a littles while. but for the 1st and 2nd trimester, they were horrible and for thos 2 grades i only had 2 f's. but for the 3rd trimester i had only a's b's and c's . but not im not going to go to the same school right now as i went b4. im going to a different school. so im wondering if they would only put me in a specific class for only the last grades i got or my grades throughout my school year?

Would a girl that likes another guy but is in a relationship do it to anyone?

Ok I know this girl that likes me but she is in a relationship with a different guy. They have been together for a year. We met 2 years ago before she knew this guy and we always had a crush. She lives very far away from me( a few states away) and at the time we liked eachother we could never do anything about it because we lived so far away. Now I can travel and see her, But she has a bf and I don't think she likes him because they have had a lot of hard times and he has cheated on her. she knows its wrong to like me but be in a relationship with someone else. She says she cant control who she likes and that when we have held hands and been close she has felt very guilty. I think that she is in a relationship that isn't worth it, but My question is If I were this girls boyfriend(of course I would treat her right like a princess) would she do the same to me? Would she like someone else while we go out and flirt and hold hands and kiss them on the cheek? Or does she do it because she really doesn't like her boyfriend but is attached to the relationship? Thanks!

What's the main purpose for a Police Officer to use his Baton?

I prefer the TASER over my baton but carry one anyway. The baton can take out a car window if you have to extract a accident victim, the TASER can drop someone from 25 feet away. A baton can be used for leverage to pry someones arm behind the back. A Taser can keep a person incapacitated until backup arrives. And, if someone is trying to stab me I'm going to shoot them with my pistol, not the TASER and I'm sure not going to let them close enough for the baton.

Does anyone have large photos of rare USMC aircraft?

look them up on airliners.net (that would probably be your best bet for aviation photography.......but make sure you ask the photographer if you can use the images

I just adopted an adult cat who was very attached to the last owner. How can I help him adjust?

Bribe the cat with food. Play with it a lot. My dog was attached to his owner but we got him to like us by playing with him and feeding him. Give the cat cat nip sometimes, they love it. Get the cat neutered when he adjusts a little. But if he starts to spray, NEUTER HIM IMMEDIATELY. Their spray smells disgusting and it will really upset your other cat.

Can someone please give me some feedback on my poem?

I loved that poem!!!! I was really intrigued and I love the Edgar Allen Poe structure!!! It was phenomenal and in my opinion it should be published. It amazes me what one can create out of simple boredom. I think you wrote a amazing poem and I loved the whole story and meaning of it all. I am really left out of words because I really don't know how to describe your poem but it was amazing. Keep writing you have talents!!! Great Job!!!!! : )

How do I replace my GPU fan?

I think my ATI Radeon HD 4650 fan is broken, as it hardly spins after cleaning the dust out of it. The fan is attached to the heatsink. Is it possible to replace it? If so, how? If not, do I have to buy a new card?

My wife refuses to stop drinking and smoking during pregnancy..?

The defects and problems that could happen are endless, underweight, stillborn, down syndrome, brething problems ect.. And snorting will STILL HURT THE BABY. Wtf is it? A crack baby!? Take her to the hospital and get the baby checked out. You better get your Sh*t straight for the sake of your child. Better yet, give the baby away to an adoption agency, you both are too fuc*ked up to be parents. Don't make that chile suffer.

Why is gay marketing still so provocative and sexually loaded like we are still in the 1970's?

spam works - we're ALL hypnosis machines - if you want positive and subdued you'll have to wait a few generations.

How to create an account in google plus? plz advise. plz attach a link if dr is.?

The only way to make an account is to be invited, as of yesterday night invites have been closed due to large demand and abuse. Sorry I really wanted to be in Google+ as well.

Severly constipated during 2nd trimester help :(!?

I haven't had a bowel movement in 3 days and now I'm stuck. I haven't been this way for awhile now. I think it might be my prenatals! What can I do to stop this? I've tried sitting in the toilet for an hour and nothing will come out. Is it bad to push? I'm scared my baby will fall out. Lol I know this sounds ridiculous but I'm a first time mom and I've already had a miscarriage so everything freaks me out. If it helps I'm 17 weeks and my baby is healthy according to my midwife and ultrasound tech.

Headaches in the first weeks of 2nd trimester, no headaches in 1st trimester?

This is my first pregnancy and I was blessed with no morning sickness in the first trimester, but now in the first couple weeks of the 2nd trimester I have begun to get headaches 3 a week with the occasional migraine. I told my Dr. about it and she prescribed a medication for me when I have a bad one. i only take it if the headache lasts more then one day. I have tried the compress and eating and constant drinking of water and nothing is helping but what the Dr. prescribed. Is this more serious then the Dr. thinks? is there something else, a remedy, that I have missed that will help me? I want to enjoy my pregnancy and it is hard when the headaches cause me to lay in one position all day. any help will greatly be appreciated.

Leaving my cats with a friend for 3 months?

I left my cats at home and got this refillable food and water things from Walmart. and laid cat toys around the house and closed the blinds. also i put scented sticks by the litter box so it won't stink. have your friend check on them like once a week.

Bleeding in first trimester?

i have been having some bleeding in the early morning and then it goes completly away. could this be part of early pregancy? i was souppos to start my period three days ago and still havent really started just the morning bleeding..... I hope someone can help me out:)

Rate this story so far?

Well, the story I would rate it at 6.5/10. It's mediocre at best and it is bland. This type of story has been told countless times with a few minor twist, but nonetheless the same. On the other hand, its probably the story that you are going for. I need something to compare it with in order to make a more precise rating. In any case, you really need to check your grammar mechanics. Keep up the good work.

Do you think that Satan is gay and is only trying to transform some into his image?

Well, satan is not gay, but that is his design. It is contrary to the will of God and his hope is to get all to follow him and to stray from god. If all followed homosexuality, Satan would destroy mankind which he desires so much to do, because mankind has been so favored over him.

Tips to subdue baby fever?

My husband and I are both young. We are both in college, he is graduating in December with his second BA and then going to start on his Masters and I am working on my B.S.E. Several people from my high school class are already having babies, even while going to school. I envy them because as a woman I do want to have kids and be a mom. I am ready to start a family with my husband but he is not ready yet. I understand that and we are not very financially stable so I am not sure we could even support someone else. Any tips on to subdue the baby fever?

No sex for 10 weeks ?

Basically since week 3 we have been told not to have sex due to a threaten misscarrige He said we should be ok now- (I'm 11 weeks) but we decided to wait till the 2nd trimester incase. So I wouldn't of had sex for 10 weeks. I usually find the beginning of sex painful when he goes in because his so big, now I'm worried that it will hurt even more when we start again and cause bleeding. What's you experience/knowledge of this? Also going by my ultrasound I'm 11 weeks wheb will I be in the 2nd trimester!? Thanks :)

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Please correct my English grammar?

With reference to SIS transmittal no. AR9518.AJ-T-SIS-ARM-206, please find attached Method of Statement for Repair Procedure for Damage Coating of Piping at site & Job Safety Analysis for your review and approval.

My dog is acting really weirdly...?

Go to your vet in the morning...they are the only ones that can tell you what is wrong. We can only guess.

Is it true that congress can still pass restrictions on abortion, even despite Roe v. Wade?

Why don't people stop whining about abortion being banned by Republicans, we have had more Republicans in the White House since Roe-v-Wade and guess what, we still have abortions. I find it odd the only time you hear a word about abortions or Social Security by Liberals is during an election.

Kanji characters as part of my partner's email address appear as squares....why can't yahoo display japanese?

as above, I have emailed BTYahoo 2 weeks ago and no reply. Also I cannot attach files to emails anymore, nothing happens when I selct a file to attach. Is BTYahoo going backwards or am I unlucky?

How do I get this guy even after regection?

There was this guy at work that Im pretty sure liked me.He would flirt and we would chat at work and on facebook occasionaly.At one point he asked me to the movies but I turned him down since I had a boyfriend at that point.He ended up getting fired at work and Soon after me and my boyfriend broke up.So I texted the guy from work just asking him how he was and casually slipping in how I was single now so if he ever needed someone to go to the movies with i would be up to it.He ended up sending me a very long text message explaining how he wasent meant to have a relationship and that no girl could ever understand him and although he felt alone he thought it was for the best.SO i asked if he would be up to having some no strings attached fun(sex) since he wasent into relationships,he then sent me another long text message explanation that he had not had sex in awhile and if he couldnt have the right person he diddnt want anyone.I told him he sounded like a hopeless romantic and then 2 days later i asked him if the definition of a hopeless romantic fit him.He replyed with a short "I dont know". And that was it.We havent been in contact since.what do i do?what makes this guy tick?etc etc HOW DO I GET THIS GUY EVEN AFTER REGECTION?

Unexpected pregnancy development. Reluctantly reconsidering adoption?

Just out of curiosity have you looked for someone who can help you develop as a family. A friend or friend's parents that you could live with? You can insure that your babies be adopted together however that doesn't sound like what you want. I am a mom to an adopted little boy and he is my pride and joy. But you have to live with this for the rest of your life. And at 16 it will be hard to provide, but not impossible. You need some encouragement and maybe even a mentor to help you get through this. Which ever decision you make will be what you have to live with and unless we were in your exact position, we don't know how we would respond. But you have a tough road ahead of you. If you would like someone to listen just email me.... hjenna77@yahoo.com. Best of luck to you!

Problems with rental house! Help!?

My husband and I moved into a 60-year-old house about three months ago. The house was unpainted at the time. The house is owned by a couple who own several other homes in our area. They asked if the house being unpainted was a problem for us, and I told them, "Not as long as it is painted soon, and the work on it doesn't drag on and on. If it's finished fast, it will be okay." I am pregnant, and when I got into the third trimester, I contacted the landlady to let her know they needed to begin work on the house. Her husband had told me it would take 8 weeks to paint it, and I only had 8 weeks left until my baby could come. They started about two weeks after this. She told me it should take 2-3 weeks, that her husband was wrong, and it would not take 8. Well, our landlord is a do-it-yourself type of guy, a terrible time manager as well, and he has some OCD tendencies. After a week and a half of noisy sanding and scraping, he seems to have fired the painting crew and is now sanding the ENTIRE HOUSE by himself, because no one can get it as perfect as he can. It's been almost three weeks, and he's not even finished sanding/scraping ONE wall of our home. I'm about three weeks from being full term, and the non-stop hammering noise is driving me insane. Our landlord is so slow, we feel that this project could take months. We have made it clear to them from the beginning that ANY work being done on our home when the baby is here is completely unacceptable. They agreed to this, but now it is looking like he may not finish in time. I'm very upset about this. For days, the landlord has been at our house alone, tinkering with the sanding and not getting anything done. I have no idea when the paint team will be back, or if they ever will be. It's just been a major source of stress-- largely because he is SO slow and cannot be trusted to get anything done. My husband and I are planning to tell him this afternoon that we are concerned, and try to speed him along- but the fact is, this is HIS house. He owns it, not us. If he wants to be a perfectionist, we can't really stop him. What is your take on this. Any advice? If I could tell you how loud this work is, you would understand why it cannot go on with a new infant in our small house. :(

How do i fit new Avid disc brakes to my cannondale?

Im trying to fit some new disc brakes to my Cannondale mountain bike, how do i attach the caliper's to the frame? The mounts don't have any thread to take the bolts

When I even walk, my poison ivy hurts so bad I have to walk lopsided?

I got poison ivy a little over 4 days ago, and day by day, the rash has begun to blister over, but also, day by day, the pain of it increases more and more. I can't walk straight, my clothing rubs on it and makes my sides raw, and sleeping is an all night nightmare. I'm waking up at 4:00 AM every night because it hurts so bad when I sleep. Someone please help me on how to subdue this never-ending pain! :(

He doesn't want to be in the delivery room. I want him there. What should I do?

I'm not sure what you should do, but this is a good indication of how supportive he will be of you through future challenges in your life. Plus, he's just a kid. You can't expect much from kids, like adult behavior. I guess you should get your mom to be there for you.

Cat question is she ok?

She is fine, probably a little thirsty and tired. A cats nose can change form wet to dry to warm to cold depending on mood, what the day is like, yadda yadda.. alot of different things. It really doesnt matter in the ends. A wet or dry nose, cold or warm, Doesn't indicate that anything is wrong with your cat. Turns out its an old wives tale. Go figure.

Can you have a filter screwed onto a gas mask while keeping it sealed?

i have sealed filters for my gas masks, and i was wondering about if you opened up the side that attaches to the mask, but not the other, if it would affect the mask being sealed, and still useful.

Can you make any sense out of this?

ive been seeing this guy for over a year,nothing offical yet. he said he doesnt want a relationship and i know hes not fooling around on me. after a year,im almost positive of it. today i asked him, "hypothetically..if i was to have another man i was seeing taking me out,sleeping in my bed,kissing me and making love to me in rotation to you..what would you do?" he responded with it would change things with us because its not cool to be with two people at the same time. he also stated he cant get mad at me for it if what i want is a serious relationship..he doesnt want to hold me back from that. this,to me is all very confusing. he says were not commited but if i test the waters with other men and then things will change (even worse than now) which i could only assume he'd sever ties with me. its like commitment with nocommitment. its like strings attached with no strings attached..but..with the strings..attached. can anyone make any sense out of this? its like hes trying to convince himself of something. im not concerned about the status of the relationship as much as i am curious about what kind of "logic" is behind all this contradiction. if i see other people its okay but it would change things? at a smaller point whats the best way to help him come to his senses. ive decided i should cut contact down.

I got my 1st pet corn snake today. Is it normal for it to be subdued & hide from me when I pass the cage?

Yes. It will probably take the better part of a week for it to settle down and get to know its enclosure and recognize you. they are usually upset when they have been permamentaly moved, but most of them cheer up and eat within a week to 10 days..

Why did James Bulger walk off with his two murderers?

I don't think you're talking about James Bulger. That is the mobster killer guy who just got caught. Are you mixing up 2 cases?

Smoking spice during first trimester.. any mothers who had children and can ACTUALLY comment on this?

i didn't find out i was pregnant until i was 15 weeks along because my periods are soo irregular. before that, i smoked pep spice nearly every day along with cigarettes. i quit as soon as i found out that i was pregnant because i worried that it might effect my baby. has anyone had a similar situation or know anyone else who has, and what happened to the baby?

So how can I view this.?

So my friend sent me this movie to my hotmail and it was attach and the file is .wlmp, but I can't watch the video with any of the player I can't even edit it.. so is there any way to watch the vid?

2009 toyota corolla is heating up and it smells like somethings burning..Help!?

my 2009 toyota corolla is heating up, and it smells like as if somethings burning. I checked black collant pipe attached to a white box i guess where we put coolant that was full. and seemed like doesn't needs to be changed and if i open hood i dont see any smoke or any thing which may tell the reason. the temperature guage inside car slowly starts rising from middle and goes upto red bar.

Is it normal for my symptoms to almost disappear at 17 weeks?

Yes it is normal for your symptoms to go away during the second trimester. For me it was amazing compared to the 1st and 3rd, my 1st was nothing but morning sickness and my 3rd was exhausting and frustrating. Just frustrating because I was always tired and very uncomfortable. If your doctor is acting lazy I would suggest finding a new doctor, you don't need the sonogram machine to hear your babys heartbeat... my doctor used a a little stethascope machine that told him how fast my babys heartbeat was, I was also able to hear it at the same time so was my husband. So don't worry, your 2nd trimester should be a breeze and hopefully your doctor gets better at his job, laziness isn't part it. Good luck and best wishes!

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

How to make this sound better in my story?

the dialogue is out of order and you have to separate the conversations. It's quite confusing. But practice of dialogue comes.

Need help with Mp3 player?

I downloaded some songs from Itunes, converted them to Mp3 version and then plugged my player in and dragged the songs across, they showed up on my player, but not under music ~ under the explorer tab and have M4a attached at the end. I've never had this trouble before downloading!!.....Can someone please Help???

How long can you be a threaten misscarriage?

the risk is highist during the first 3 months. then drops during the 4-6 months then a very low chance towards the end. but you will always worry about this, even later on yu will worry about still born. bleeding is normal during pregnancy for some. as long as you dont get more then a tea spoon

I don't want to be friends with one if my friends, but they do... What do I do?

She's so attached to me!, and she doesn't seem to like any of my other friends. She's also very immature and not too fun to hangout with. She doesn't really care about how she looks, which I know is good, but I think she should care a little bit...I dint knwo what to do. Help?!

I'm thinking of pursuing a career as an ineffective abortion doctor and...?

telling women that their abortion is complete, even though I never went through with it. I can then tell them that they may still miss periods and gain some weight up until what would have been the third trimester, but that it's due to hormones. Then they couldn't legally get an abortion after that. Is this a good idea?

Bucket list bulletin board ideas?

me and my friend are making a summer bucket list. but instea dof just making a list, were gonna get a cord board type thing and attach our list there. how should we atttach out ideas? would it be better to put pictures? write the list? type it? any ideas are helpful

Comment/critique some writing, please?

I really like this, I think you could get published eventually. Everything you asked was really nice. Tell me when it's released ;)

Something horrible is happening to me and I don't know why?

Everything has failed to subdue me. Now everything seems dull: another sunrise, the lives of heroes, falling in love, war, the discoveries people make about each other. The only thing that doesn't bore me, obviously enough, is how much money my colleague makes, and yet in its obviousness it does. There isn't a clear, identifiable emotion within me, except for greed and, possibly, total disgust. I have all the characteristics of a human being — flesh, blood, skin, hair — but my depersonalization is so intense, has gone so deep, that the normal ability to feel compassion has been eradicated, the victim of a slow, purposeful erasure. I am simply imitating reality, a rough resemblance of a human being, with only a dim corner of my mind functioning. Something horrible is happening and yet I cannot figure out why; I cannot put my finger on it.

High blood pressure during first trimester?

I been having hypertension throughout my first trimester ranging 135/68 - 155/72 it rises when i'm walking around and being active but when i sit and rest it drops. I'm now 12 weeks 5 days and have an appointment to talk to my doctor about getting medication that's safe to use during pregnancy but is the damage already done? I've read that high blood pressure decreases oxygen to the fetus and causes brain damage and i'm very worried.. has anyone had a normal healthy child after going through almost their entire first trimester with uncontrolled hypertension?

How do you feel about your dog?

Is he just a pet to you? A best friend? Family member? To me, my dog is like my son, my little boy to be exact. I've had him since he was a pup, and I'm very attached to him. I can tell I'm his favorite because he follows me the most around, only sleeps in my room and sleeps very close to me, he licks me when I feed him, bathe him, take him for a walk, I feel like my dog is a human, and all he needs is to speak. To me he is my pride and joy, my best friend, my little son and a family member. Yes, we have our ups and downs, he does make me mad, but I love him. :)

Continuous headaches during 2nd trimester pregnancy?

I just hit 17 weeks prego and since iv been about 14 weeks pregnant iv been having headaches. at first they weren't to bad but now there more and more frequent throughout the whole day and tend to increase when i move around. I just wanted 2 know dose any one have this same symptom and is it normal during pregnancy are is it probably deeper then that? what should i do I'm a bit worried.

Questions about labor and giving birth?

I used the Bradley method with all four of my births. Labor was a moderate, dull ache for me. I would consider it a 5 1/2 on a scale of 1-10. The crowning was a 9, but the pain only lasts a couple of minutes. Look for the book, Natural Childbirth the Bradley Way. Over 90% of those who use the Bradley method do not need pain medication. I had stitches with my first one, so I was sore for a while. Postpartum complications are much worse than just being sore. I had a thyroid crisis after my first one and was very sick for several days. She was three months old before I was strong enough to push the vacuum cleaner. I was sick a lot after my second baby. I was sick and running a fever for ten days of every month for six months. I had a fever as high as 105. Birth can be easy compared to postpartum.

To the moms out there! I need help with maternity support belts and where to go for them?

My OB told me to invest in a maternity support belt because of all the pressure in my lower half. My baby is causing me to have pelvic bone separations and a few other issues. I am on my 2nd pregnancy in my third trimester and I have never needed one before till now. If any moms out there who have needed and used one before I need suggestions where to look online or stores. I have a few friends who have needed them and didn't like them cause they were uncomfortable. I just need some options. thank you

Prenatal vitamins related question...?

I didn't realize I was pregnant until 12 weeks so I wasn't taking prenatal vitamins during my first trimester. Does this increase my baby's risk for birth defects? I am now taking them in my second trimester. I'm really worried. Thank you.

1st Trimester Fatigue! How can I boost energy!?

I have terrible first trimester fatigue. This is my second child and with my first I had fatigue and morning sickness the whole time, but now its almost like as soon as I was 5 weeks pregnant I felt as though my head weighed 100 lbs and my body was sooo sick! Of course I have morning sickness (I can't go a single morning without throwing up) and I feel as though I probably will the whole time. But I do not want to be sick and lethargic this time! I want to not feel tired and useless! My husband works and I just graduated with my bachelors and am currently looking for a job (I know I'll be working pregnant but we need money). He doesn't understand why I wake up sick in the middle of the night and says that I am pretending to have morning sickness and its all in my head. (Like I want to be sick!) I also can't get any sleep cause of my back and peeing so often! I just want energy. Is there any supplements or activities that are useful? I know going on walks helps but my husband makes me feel bad if I leave the house, especially for something that's not beneficial to the household. Please help!

What should i expect to feel in my third trimester?

I'm in my 1st trimester at the mo and have already experienced the 2nd trimester before (miscarriage) but I just want to know what the 3rd trimester feels like, what to expect and how to cope etc. How big do you get?? do you eat more, and mostly do you get the real motherly instincts and bonds in the third trimester???

Where do Souls come from?

Does God create them "on the fly" or is there a big jar of them that he has pre-made since the time of creation? When does a soul get attached to a human being (conception, birth, consciousness?) and when does it leave a human being? (when it's sold, or 10 minutes after brain death, or...?)

Can't Find This Song For the Life of Me?

Black Veil Brides is screamo, not metal. And that definitely sounds like some emo lyrics right there.

Genital hair follicle infection?

A hot compress will help draw out the infection. Just soak it with a hot washcloth for a couple of minutes. If it doesn't go away in a couple of days, or gets hot and really painful, go see a doctor as you may have a more serious infection.

My 6 almost 7 year old son does not want a sibling. What should I do I am pregnant?

I just found out last night that I will be having another baby. My husband and I have talked about it with our son but now that I am finally pregnant we fear we might have made the wrong choice. We have always asked our son how he would feel if he had a brother or sister and his response was always 'I don't want one". I always took it with a grain of salt and didn't think much of it. Well tonight at dinner we were asking him again and I asked why he doesn't want a sibling and his response tonight night was " Because you and Daddy won't love me anymore". Needless to say I was heartbroken and now I am not sure what to do. I am so against abortion so that would not be an option. I have spent the few hours reassuring him but nothing seems to work. We have not told him that I am pregnant and we don't plan to tell anyone until the 2nd trimester. I could really use some help from people who have had the same problem and any advice would be be greatly appreciated